Goodbyes come in all shapes and sizes. Some of them are harder than others. Oftentimes, they make you feel empty and sometimes alone. The thought of not having that person is at the forefront makes it hard to take your mind off the fact that they are no longer your first resort. Unfortunately, those initial thoughts fill our heads when a goodbye happens, which is understandable. What if the ideas of goodbyes could be adapted to focus on why the goodbye is the way it is? If you think about it, goodbyes are typically hard to get through because the bond shared between you and the person empowers strength and love in such a unique way that it can’t be displayed through anyone else. That’s the mental brick wall that is so hard to climb over. But it’s true. It’s the unbreakable bond with a combination of love and passion that can’t be created with anyone but them. It’s the things that make love and passion that build the bond. The endless laughs, loving actions, and support. When all of that is added up, it creates something so special that losing it can feel like the end of the world. Would you give up laughter, loving actions, and support for the hardship of going through a goodbye? Goodbyes are a special thing if you look at them through the right lens. They are so hard to get through because of all the memories that were created along the way.
Regarding Northwood, the second half of the year is in full swing, and for most seniors, goodbyes have begun to fill our minds as we have started experiencing our last. Last first day, last Christmas formal, last Northwood Tournament, and many more that will arise over the next few months. It’s all because we care. That is why we have these thoughts. We care about these memories, whatever they may be because the time spent surrounded by people we now consider family is something that was unimaginable a few years ago. The love that fills the walls of Northwood and beyond truly shows how the people that fill them have graciously impacted our lives in the most unexpected ways.
So, as we experience our lasts and the goodbyes start to filter into our daily routines, know the reason behind the shedding of a tear or the hugs that may last a little bit longer. Remember how special it is to have goodbyes like these and to have your emotions so strong that they bring you to tears. Goodbyes are memorable, just like every reason behind them.
